Building a business isn’t just about systems. It’s about values, people, and what you’re willing to stand for.
Each episode of Bearing It All brings you vulnerable conversations with bold entrepreneurs navigating what it means to grow a company without losing your soul.
If you’re here for honesty without the gloss, stories about leadership beyond profit, and building teams that thrive, hit play.
Our Seventh Episode
From Perfectionism to Presence: Redefining Leadership with Kadena Tate
In Episode 7 of Bearing It All, Kate Ginsberg founder and CEO of Queen of To Do, welcomes Kadena Tate, revenue strategist, speaker, and founder of 50 Shades of Paid, for a powerful conversation on power, presence, and letting go of the pressure to be perfect.
Together, they explore the deep emotional cost of overgiving, the nervous system realities of money mindset, and what it takes to lead with integrity instead of control. Kadena shares how she moved from “A-student hustle” to sustainable success, and what she had to unlearn to get there.
"You will meet yourself at every step."
“The lazy you, the perfectionist you, the people-pleaser. But if you relax, take a deep breath, and trust yourself. You’ll be just fine.”
— Kadena Tate
About Kadena Tate
Kadena Tate is a revenue strategist, speaker, and founder of 50 Shades of Paid, where she helps women entrepreneurs design scalable, aligned businesses. With a background in military structure and corporate sales, Kadena now blends strategy with soul, teaching high-achieving leaders how to release perfectionism and reconnect with purpose.
She’s known for her directness, generosity, and unwavering commitment to helping women earn well, live well, and lead without losing themselves.
Meet Your Host: Kate Ginsberg
Kate Ginsberg is not just the founder and CEO of Queen of To Do, she's a trailblazer in the art of radical self-care through delegation. As the driving force behind Bearing It All, Kate brings a refreshing honesty to the entrepreneurial journey, proving that trying to do it all isn’t a badge of honor, it's a recipe for burnout.
Her journey is a testament to the belief that rest is not a luxury, but a necessity. Kate founded Queen of To Do on the understanding that when you give yourself permission to lean on expert help, you're not just lightening your load; you're reclaiming the ultimate luxury: time. Time to think, to create, and to live life fully.
Whether she’s sharing candid stories on Bearing It All or teaching her team of personal assistants about empowering clients to find balance, Kate shows that embracing delegation is the radical self-care move every entrepreneur deserves.
Ready to see how taking the weight off your shoulders can lead to a richer, more connected life?
-1.png?width=600&height=200&name=Untitled%20design%20(28)-1.png "Queen of To Do \"Life's hassles, handled\" personal assistants and house managers logo")
Copyright © 2025 Queen of To Do
3801 N Capital of TX Hwy
Ste E240, Unit #3399
Austin, TX 78746
512.761.7084
Privacy Policy